Men vs Women - Relationships
Neither Sex Knows How to Speak to the Other. Hopefully, This Page Provides Some Insights.
These Are Not Necessarily My Views, rather a broad brush of society today. For the Record: I’m Pro Marriage, Pro Monogamy, Pro Traditional Values.
Male – Vs – Female
- Men Chase, Women Choose
- Men Seek Respect; Women Seek Love
- Men Watch Youtube; Women Watch TikTok
- Men Offer Relationships; Women Offer Sex
- Men Value Independence; Women Value Security
- Men Hide Emotions; Women Express Emotions
- Men Want Sex First; Women Want Emotions First
- Height Is to a Woman as Curves Are to a Man
- Men Fear Rejection; Women Fear Abandonment
- Men Speak Structurally; Women Speak Contextually
- Men Are Success Objects; Women Are Beauty Objects
- Men Care About the Past; Women Care About the Future
- Men Face Backlash for Wanting Tradition; Women Don’t
- Men Want Barbie Dolls; Women Want Ken’s Accessories
- Men Give Love to Have Sex; Women Give Sex to Get Love
- Men Compete for Status; Women Compete for Attention
- Men Expect to Provide; Women Expect to Be Provided For
- Men Fear Being Controlled; Women Fear Being Neglected
- Men Want to Feel Needed; Women Want to Feel Cherished
- Men Are Driven by Respect; Women Are Driven by Affection
- In Relationships, Men are Static; Women are Kaleidoscopic
- Men Avoid Vulnerability; Women Seek Emotional Expression
- Men Fall in Love with Their Eyes; Women Fall in Love with Their Ears
- Men Prioritize Career Success; Women Prioritize Relationship Success
- Men Are Success Objects to Women; Women Are Beauty Objects to Men
- In Fights, Men Focus on Fixing the Cause; Women Focus on Fixing the Feelings
- Men Sleep with Whomever They Can; Women Sleep with Whomever They Want
- Men Seek Respect Through Achievement; Women Seek Love Through Relationships
- Men Communicate to Share Information; Women Communicate to Build Connections
- Men are attracted to breeding age women, women to financially stable age men
- Men Age Like Wine; Women Age Like Milk (Women Start as Wine, Men Start as Milk)
- Society Tells Men to Do What Is Right; Society Tells Women to Do Whatever They Want
- Men Are Attracted to Youth and Beauty; Women Are Attracted to Power and Confidence
- Men Are Goal-Oriented in Conversations; Women Are Process-Oriented in Conversations
- Men Insult Each Other but Don’t Mean It; Women Compliment Each Other but Don’t Mean It
- It’s Deceptive for Men to Lie About Their Height; It’s Not for Women to Lie Behind Makeup
It’s Deceptive for Men to Lie About Their Height, But Not for Women to Hide Behind Makeup
- Women Want Equal Pay, But Only Date Men That Makes More Money Then Them
- Men Seek Physical Before Giving Emotional; Women Seek Emotional Before Giving Physical
- Women Want Equal Pay with Men but Want a Man Who Makes More Money Than They Do
- Men Enjoying Video Games & Sports, Is to Women Enjoying Crime Dramas and Reality TV
- All Women Think They Are Fat, Except Fat Women; All Men Think They Are Strong, Except Strong Me.
- Men Ask Other Men What Women Like; Women Ask Other Women What Men Like (See the Flaw?)
- Men Are Interested in a Woman’s Sexual History; Women Are Interested in a Man’s Future Potential
- Men Regret One-Night Stands They Didn’t Have; Women Regret One-Night Stands They Did Have
- Men Are Penalized for Wanting Traditional Women; Women Aren’t Penalized for Wanting Traditional Men
- Men Have High Standards for Women They Want; Women Have High Standards for Men They Don’t Want
- Men Seek the Most Sex for the Least Effort; Women Seek the Most Resources for the Least Amount of Sex
- Men Admit they Need Women To Survive; Women Say Can Surive without Men (clearly not true)
- “Men Are Afraid That Women Will Laugh at Them. Women Are Afraid That Men Will Kill Them”
― Margaret Atwood
Male-Male Friendships
- Male-male friendships are side-to-side, fostered, and maintained through shared activity
- Male-Male friendships are less intimate than female-female friendships
- Men will consider someone a friend even if they do not maintain or stay in constant contact.
- Men are likelier to remain friends after an argument or a fight, whereas women are not.
- Men are more likely to use humor to taunt a friend while viewing this as innocent fun
- Men tend to hang out more in a group; the more, the merrier
- Men Insult Each Other but Don’t Mean It
Female-Female Friendships
- Female-Female friendships, fostered and maintained through intimacy, communication, and support, are deeply emotional connections.
- Women require more frequent contact with someone they consider to be a friend.
- Emotional attachment Females have and desire a strong emotional attachment with persons they perceive to be friends.
- Women are more likely to refrain from taunting and humor out of fear it may hurt their friend’s feelings.
- Women typically prefer to go out with one good friend.
- Female-Female friendships, while deeply emotional, tend to be more fragile
- Women Compliment Each Other but Don’t Mean It
Social Media Question 2024:
If hiking alone in the woods, would you rather run into a man, or a bear? Most women say a bear…because you know, bears are less dangerous.
Dating Statistics
- Majority of Women Think Da
- Female Delusion Calculator(MUST TRY!)
- Limitations – Does Not Include Personality, Compatibility, Loyalty, And:
- 56% Of Single Adults are NOT Looking for a Relationship
- 78% of online dating profiles are fake
- 50% Of Women Are Projected to Be Single by 2030
- 63% Of Men Under 30 Are Single
- Dating App algorithm Shows Women only the Top 10% of Men. Why? So They Don’t Leave.
The Apps Survive Becuase of the Money Spent By Men:- Bumble = 67.4% Male
- Tinder = 76% Male
- Women Incorrectly Assume Dating Apps are Just as Easy for Men as it is for Women
- Avg Woman Receives 100’s Of Likes Per Day (example)
- Avg Man Receives 0-10 Likes Per Week
- 30% of men in their 30’s are single and sexless
- 90% of Women are Interested in only the top 20% of men even if they way out of their league (Video)
- Most Women Believe They Are an 8-10 Because They Hooked Up With An 8-10 (video)
- Non-Traditional Women Still Expect Traditional Men (double standard)
- Article: Liberal Women Can’t Find Masculine Liberal Men (Lberal Men are Feminine Because of Feminism)
- Incels (Involuntarily Celibate men) are a direct result of female hypergamy (see summary below)
- Norah Vincent – a Lesbian, dressed as a man, and assumed men had it easy in dating. Her book shares dating reality and double standards, and the difficulty men face that women aren’t aware exist.
- Anna Akana – Learned Dating from Male Perspective, is Horrible
- Book/Video: Women Pretends to Be a Man, but Learns It Sucks as a Guy to Date
Divorce Statistics
- The #1 reason for filing for divorce is lack of commitment
- 6% of divorced couples end up remarrying each other
- HIGHER spending on both engagement & wedding rings is linked to SHORTER marriages
- 25% of couples fight about social media posts at least once a week
- Increased rate of divorce when one spouse gains more than 20% of his / her body weight
- 80% of divorces are initiated by women (thus higher with lesbians!)
Divorce Rates by Orientation
- Gay Men Marriage: 26%
- Male / Female Marriage: 50%
- Lesbian Female Marriage: 76%
“The first time you marry for love,
the second for money, and the third for companionship”
– Jacqueline Kennedy
Sex in Relationships
Ladies, Hooking Up With a “10” male does not mean he likes you because you are a “10” as well.
On the contrary, the majority of men will “date down” or Sleep With Any Women They Can Get, as it’s a Biological Need for Men; whereas for Women It Is Not biological, rather, it is Female Hypergamy, going for the best option they can get (not shaming here, it’s evolution), Not Realizing the “best option” (top 20% of men) are screwing all women that through themselves at them, and thus have no reason to settle down (plus you are sharing him with other women). Example on Dating up/down 1-10.
Also, casual sex is associated with less depressive symptoms in men, but with more depressive symptoms in women. 26% of women are on antidepressants or anti-anxiety meds. Drawing a correlation between heightened depression in women in the modern age of promiscuity. Further, it is common for women to feel that once they are married or with a child, sex is no longer needed. Forgetting that the need for sex doesn’t disappear from men. And then upset men chose to cheat or go to strip clubs.
Things Needed in Marriage by Gender:
- Avg Man: Top 3 Things Needed in Marriage: Always includes sex
- Avg Woman: Top 10 Things Needed in Marriage: Most WILL NOT Include Sex
- As a Weapon, Both Drive Each Other Further Apart By:
- Women Often Hold Back Sex, whereas,
- Men Often Hold Back Communication
- Note: Lesbian Couples Experience “Dead Bed”—Neither Woman Initiates Sex
What Most Women Want Men to Know
- Men don’t understand women’s efforts to create emotional closeness.
- Do you make ME laugh? Do you make ME think? Do you talk to ME?
- Men prioritize women’s bodies over their minds, leading to frustration from objectification.
- Men behave chauvinistically, acting superior and rarely practicing equality, which leaves women feeling neglected.
- Men assume they know better, often solving problems instead of listening to women’s concerns.
- Men pretend to know everything and try too hard to impress, which feels disingenuous.
- Men act overly macho, being possessive and refusing to drop the tough-guy image.
- Men expect women to sacrifice but rarely prioritize their needs or make sacrifices themselves.
- Men see themselves as the head of everything and believe they can get away with anything.
- Men lack sincerity in relationships, often cheating and failing to understand women’s feelings.
- Men are unpredictable, hurting women and then playing the hero, which confuses and frustrates women.
- Men misinterpret women’s care as nagging, asking for space because they struggle with commitment.
- Note: Women Want Emotionally Open Men, But then Often See Emotionally Open Men as WeakM
What Most Men Want Women to Know
- Most Factual Video Ever on How Men Think Click Here
- Most men Don’t Like Makeup
- Full Sleeve or covered in tattoos (why put a bumper sticker on a Ferrari?)
- Taylor Swift, Kardashians, Dating Shows, TikTok, Female Targeted Audiences
- High Body Count (see summary below for a genetic reason why)
- Masculine women: AKA Boss Babes, Ambitiousness, confidence, dominance, assertiveness, or any other masculine male characteristics
- M5 Huge Mistakes Women Make About Men
Summary
Men need women as much as women need men, yet feminism is trying to convince women that they can survive without men (clearly not true: example survival island). Men have no problem stating they need women to survive. Sure, women could do artificial insemination, but women don’t become high power line technicians, or asphalt layers, logging, mining, or any number of high risk of death jobs, that women rely on. Heck, men created the iphone and the titktok software on it that women love. Men will soon create realistic sex robots. Women have always been equal, feminist just need to see it’s equal in different ways. The modern world wouldn’t exist if men didn’t build it for women.
(Side note: there is no “pay gap” if you calculate correctly on hourly rate vs annual income).
Evolutionary psychology provides us insight into the dynamics of men and women, both on a societal level and genetically. Throughout history, powerful and wealthy men—kings, chiefs, landlords, rulers, etc, representing the top 10-20% of men—often had multiple wives and many children, so long as they could provide for the larger family members. Having many partners was acceptable if the man supported the families and children.
(Side note: Studies also show that women have greater reproductive success by mating with an already-mated male, rather than an unmated one.)
On the other hand, before the days of DNA testing, women who had multiple partners faced challenges in proving paternity, which could leave their children without a committed father, resulting in them being orphaned or labeled as bastards (or even killed off). This is why men have historically been reluctant to raise other men’s children – no proof it is their kid. Women have traditionally supported each other’s family in the village, so from their genetici perspective, helping to raise another child isn’t as foreign an idea as it is too men. This male reluctance is a genetic trait still present in men today and explains why some men are uncomfortable with women having high body count (number of past sexual partners), despite modern feminist views advocating otherwise—millennia of genetic programming can NOT be overridden.
Additionally, women often recover from relationships faster than men, likely a result of evolutionary pressures from times when villages were raided, men and children were killed, and women were abducted as new wives.
Men are more likely to have casual hookups with women they know to be less attractive than themselves, because of a biological drive for sex that is stronger in men than in women. Testosterone, which influences sex drive, is 17 times higher in men than in women. Even at the most sexually active point in a woman’s menstrual cycle, men still have 17 times higher levels of testosterone/sex drive than women, which results in a much greater and subsequent biological need in men that women don’t relate to (example). Further, it is common for women to feel that once they are married or with a child, sex is no longer needed, forgetting that the need for sex doesn’t disappear for men. And then upset men chose to cheat or go to strip clubs. Men get married, expecting a lifetime of sex comes with marriage. Women forget this carnal need.
Because of this attention from the top 20% of men on that of less attractive women, women believe they deserve men from that top tier, then overlooking men who are at their actual level. This has led to fewer marriages and increased dissatisfaction, as women focus on high-status men (“Chads” or “Tyrones”) who have little incentive to commit since they can fulfill their sexual needs without settling down.
As a result, there’s a growing global population decline and the rise of “incels” (INvoluntary CELibate men), who, due to dating frustrations, have developed resentment toward both dating and women. Everyone loses in this cycle. Men have a suicide rate four times higher than women and are often the perpetrators of mass shootings. Some suggest that this may be due to social isolation. BTW: Both Black and white men commit mass shootings at similar rates when adjusted for population size.
The comparisons herein are not a “Red Pill” endorsement, but rather, a perspective on how we have evolved as men and women. Male/Female brains are different genetically. Interestingly, it is likely why women that “become” trans men, can’t handle a man’s world (and visa versa): Example/Evidence