On the other hand, before the days of DNA testing, women who had multiple partners faced challenges in proving paternity, which could leave their children without a committed father, resulting in them being orphaned or labeled as bastards (or even killed off). This is why men have historically been reluctant to raise other men’s children – no proof it is their kid. Women have traditionally supported each other’s family in the village, so from their genetic perspective, helping to raise another child isn’t as foreign an idea as it is to men. This male reluctance is a genetic trait still present in men today and explains why some men are uncomfortable with women having high body count (number of past sexual partners), despite modern feminist views advocating otherwise—millennia of genetic programming can NOT be overridden. 

Further, women often recover from relationships faster than men, likely a result of evolutionary pressures from times when villages were raided, men and children were killed, and women were abducted as new wives and had to adapt quickly to survive.

Men are more likely to have casual hookups with women they know to be less attractive than themselves, because of a biological drive for sex that is stronger in men than in women. Testosterone, which influences sex drive, is 17 times higher in men than in women. Even at the most sexually active point in a woman’s menstrual cycle, men still have 17 times higher levels of testosterone/sex drive than women, which results in a much greater and subsequent biological need in men that women don’t relate to (link example). Further, it is common for women to feel that once they are married or with a child, sex is no longer needed, forgetting that the need for sex doesn’t disappear for men. And then upset men chose to cheat or go to strip clubs.  Men get married, expecting a lifetime of sex comes with marriage.  Women forget this carnal need.

Because of this attention from the top 20% of men on that of less attractive women, women believe they deserve men from that top tier, then overlooking men who are at their actual level. This has led to fewer marriages and increased dissatisfaction, as women focus on high-status men (“Chads” or “Tyrones”) who have little incentive to commit since they can fulfill their sexual needs without settling down. 

As a result, there’s a growing global population decline and the rise of “incels” (INvoluntary CELibate men), who, due to dating frustrations, have developed resentment toward both dating and women.  Everyone loses in this cycle. Men have a suicide rate four times higher than women and are often the perpetrators of mass shootings. Some suggest that this may be due to social isolation. BTW: Both Black and white men commit mass shootings at similar rates when adjusted for population size.  

The comparisons herein are not a “Red Pill” endorsement, but rather, a perspective on how we have evolved as men and women. Male/Female brains are different genetically. Interestingly, it is likely why women that “become” trans men, can’t handle a man’s world (and visa versa): Example/Evidence.  Further evidence: An NYU study found that artificial intelligence can detect the differences in male and female brains 92% to 98% of the time. It does this by spotting patterns in brain structure invisible to the human eye.